People always complain that no one understands them and in Grendels case, its literal, no one understands him. #1 Why cant I have someone to talk to? I said. The stars said nothing, but I pretended to ignore the rudeness. The Shaper has people to talk to, I said. I wrung my fingers. Hrothgar has people to talk to. Pg. 53 #2 This quote shows Grendel asking his mom why they live where they do. Hes looking for answers, for a reason why they live there, and why they live the way they do. He might not be looking for a meaning to life, but hes looking for a meaning for his way of life.
He again, doesnt understand why other things get to live in nicer ways, and in better places. Grendel is looking for a reason, as always. #2 Why are we here? I used to ask her. Why do we stay in this putrid hole? pg. 11 #3 This quote also shows Grendel trying to find meaning to life, or rather show his negativity towards it. He is stating that where you are a child, everything is good, but then you grow up and you have to realize the truth. Grendel is still trying to figure out his truth, and what his meaning really is.
#3 So childhood too feels good at first, before one happens to notice the terrible sameness, age after age. Pg. 9 #4 This quote represents Grendels more nihilistic ways. He questions his own actions, and motives, showing that he is unsure. His answer to his own question is not even an answer. He says Hrothgar has not done anything to deserve it, but he also has not done anything to be exempt from him. Grendel, again, is searching for an answer why. #4 How, if I know all this, you may ask, could I hound himshatter him again and again.dive him deeper and deeper into woe?
I have no answer, except perhaps this: why should I not? Has he made any move to deserve my kindness? pg. 122 #5 When people find something theyre good at, they refer to it as their calling. Well, this quote represents Grendel finding his calling. He is finally stating that he has an identity and purpose that is unique. This is the first time Grendel feels he actually has a place, and his life has meaning, which elates him. #5 I was Grendel, Ruiner of Meadhalls, Wrecker of Kings! pg. 80.