Generally, the mother is thought of having ownership of a child and not the child, however, alternatively Duffy utilises an inversion of the natural use of the phrase. She also takes on the role as a parent in the third stanza to reinforce this notion: Whose small bites on your neck, sweetheart? The reoccurrence of the possession by the child gives the reader a sense that Duffys mother had lost her freedom. Duffy refers to this loss of freedom throughout the poem and youthful life of glamour and vivacity that she perceives her mother to have had before she was born.
This is supported through the quotations: I knew you would dance like that¦ and ¦dress blows around your knees. Marilyn, referring to the film star. Duffy perceives recklessness and contentment, idealising and applying an imaginative image of what her mother was like from the famous photograph of Marilyn Monroe in The Seven Year Itch standing on the grid, revealing her legs, introducing a sexual element. This sexual element is brought in again with in the ballroom with the thousand eyes. It could be interrupted that Duffy is referring to the glitter ball or the eyes of potential partners.
Furthermore, the poem is divided into four regular stanzas of five lines each giving the poem regularity. It could be interpreted that time passing is the same for all humanity and it is inevitable; reflecting on a parents past is something very familiar. This is highlighted again when Duffy professes Before you were mine, your Ma¦ Everybody experiences similar events. Duffy gives the consensus that her mother enjoyed life much more before her existence. This is elucidated by bend at the waist and shriek. Both phrases give connotations of excessive laughing, screams and exhilaration.
There are numerous references to time throughout the poem; Duffy mentions herself at the beginning of each stanza as a reminder that she does not yet exist and her mother has never given a thought about her. For example, Im not here yet. The thought of me doesnt occur¦ Duffy then continues to inform the reader about her gratification of dancing and being content once again. This gives the impression that Duffy is guilt-ridden for besmirching her mothers pleasure. This is underpinned when she states I remember my hands in those high-heeled red shoes, relics¦ The noun relics gives veneration for the past her mother has experiences.
A relic is usually a religious and ancient article that is worshiped and how long Duffys mothers life before she was born must feel like to her. Duffy believes her glamour never truly left her and she endeavours to recreate the lost romance and passion of the past. For instance, the statement stamping stars from the wrong pavement which implies that she has left Glasgow and no longer with her friends, laughing, she is no longer in the literary ballroom and she is no longer the glamorous person associated with Marilyn Monroe but she is a mother with her child and an immense responsibility.
However, the quotation could also allude to Hollywood Boulevard and the Walk of Fame where there is a sense of glamour and romance that is not associated with Glasgow. This again elucidates the notion that Duffy feels guilt-ridden and that she believes her mother deserved more. At the end of the poem, Duffy professes, That glamour love lasts where you sparkle and waltz and laugh before you were mine, employing pathos by awakening emotion in the audience; Duffy feels that her mother has sacrificed her glamour to have her, linking to the religious element with the shoes she thought of as relics.